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New Dubai companion directory verifies every listing by video

A new Dubai companion directory has opened for registration, and it will not let anyone appear in its listings until they have recorded a short video on the site and had every photograph approved by a moderator.

DubaiGF lists companions available for dinner, events, travel and social occasions across the city, in three separate sections — female, trans and male. The directory is free to browse and needs no account.

Its distinguishing feature is the order it does things in. On most listing sites a profile appears immediately and checks happen later, if at all. Here the directory stays closed to a new listing until several conditions are met at once.

What it takes to get listed

A member must confirm their email address, complete their profile, upload between five and ten photographs and have each one approved individually, nominate one approved image as a cover photograph, and submit a verification video that a moderator accepts. Miss any one of those and the listing stays private. According to the site, no manual override is available to staff.

The profile itself carries a first name, one of 26 Dubai areas, the languages the person speaks, their interests, and an introduction of at least 40 characters. Email addresses and telephone numbers are never displayed, and members are told not to put contact details in a listing or a first message.

Age is restricted to 18 and over.

Verification by video, and a narrow claim

The verification step is unusual, and so is the way the site describes it.

Rather than sending members to a third-party identity service, DubaiGF asks them to record roughly five seconds of video from the camera on whatever device they are using. The clip goes into a moderation queue, where a reviewer compares the face in it against the photographs on the listing. If it matches, the listing is verified and carries a small tick.

What is notable is how narrowly the site defines that tick. Its own pages state plainly that this is a person comparing a video with photographs, and that it is not a biometric liveness check — acknowledging that a recording can be replayed, and that software exists which can feed video into a camera as though it were live. A careful reviewer, the site says, catches most of that but not all of it.

That is a more modest claim than the industry norm, where "verified" is frequently asserted and rarely explained. It is also a more useful one, because it tells a reader exactly what has and has not been established: that the photographs are honest, which is the single most common thing that is dishonest on sites of this kind.

The clip itself does not survive the decision. According to the site it is erased the moment a moderator decides either way, is never published, is never shown to another member, and is held nowhere outside the moderation queue.

No open messaging

A visitor who wants to reach a listed companion sends a connection request, and no conversation exists until it is accepted. Declining requires no explanation, and the site's published position is that an unanswered request has been answered, and that persisting after a refusal costs the account.

Blocking and confidential reporting are available on every listing and every conversation, and both run separately from the site's general contact form, so a complaint about a member does not land in a general inbox.

Photographs rebuilt on upload

Images are not kept as supplied. Each is decoded and re-encoded from raw pixels, discarding the location coordinates, camera identifiers and colour profiles wrapped around the image data. It closes a well-known leak: phone photographs routinely carry the coordinates of where they were taken, and sites that publish uploads untouched publish those coordinates too.

Each approved photograph is then rendered into six sizes across three image formats, so a visitor's browser downloads the smallest version that will do. A single reduced master copy is kept privately for moderation and is never served publicly.

Directory pages make no third-party requests, so no external analytics or advertising tags load alongside them.

Built deliberately light

The site runs on plain PHP with a single small stylesheet and a minimal amount of deferred JavaScript. Rate limiting is applied to sensitive actions, and network addresses are stored only as keyed hashes rather than in the clear. The camera is switched off at the browser level on every page except the one where verification happens.

Two further domains, dubaigirlfriend.com and dxbgf.com, redirect to the main address.

Sample content is labelled as such

One policy is worth noting because most directories do not bother to make it explicit. Any fictional profile used during development is flagged in the database as a sample, hidden in production by configuration, and cannot be published as a member under any circumstance. The restriction is enforced in code rather than left to administrative discipline.

That matters in a category where padding a thin directory with invented listings has been a recurring practice.

The open question

Dubai has an unusually mobile population, and social circles here tend to form around employers and nationalities. Arranging company for an evening is harder than the size of the city suggests.

Whether a verification-first directory can fill up quickly enough to be useful is the question. Requiring a recorded video and manual photograph review before anyone appears is a deliberate brake on growth, and the site has chosen to accept a slower start.

DubaiGF is live at dubaigf.com. Registration is free and open to adults in Dubai.

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